It's hard to sit back and watch your friends make what you think is a big mistake, even if it's for the right reasons. I know it's not my life, and it's none of my business. It just gives me the creeps to see my friend shun all the good will and support they've been given and instead glom on to a situation that will likely be detrimental in the end. Pushing away the people that matter, in favor of the things that made them so unhappy before. It's the kind of situation where it is easier to back away from the friendship than to watch the mistake.